She has been climbing up staircase since last month. This month she started with her new milestone on climbing up and down from the sofa. ( This video clip - She got smarter after first dropped on her bum! )
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Zoe's Menu
Zoe started solid food since she was five months. As advised by doc, we started her off with fruits like bananas, apples,avocados and pears. When she reached six months, doc said we can be more adventurous, and cereals are in order. Many advised that anchovies porridge is best for baby, but hubby is against it. As someone has mentioned to him on processing anchovies. According to him, to avoid flies and insects from hovering around the anchovies while drying, a generous amount of insect repellent is sprayed onto the little fish. Therefore, he wouldn't want that for Zoe. But then, for generations babies have grown up with anchovies porridge, and many still do. And we drink soup with anchovies nearly everyday!
But being the stubborn me, i still forbids him and go ahead! ( No harm if you don't consume everyday. Added on i have invested in a good Food Ozonizer.) We both agreed we don't want processed canned cereals for her.
( look at the compounds after the meat being oxidizes )
( Okamizu Food Ozonizer)
So we have some guideline on food preparations, especially Zoe's foods. My maid does most of the cooking for Zoe after I show her how things should be done. And she does a very good job, although, according to her, babies in Indonesia grow up on a different menu. I try as much as possible to prepare food for Zoe because I like to experiment with new flavours and methods. And then, seeing her reaction when she makes a new discovery is, of course, priceless.So, after much 'discussion' (with hubby) on the choice of food, research and experiment, Zoe now has a rather extensive menu.
Eggs: ( Must be "kampung eggs" or "omega") - Used to be 1/4 of the egg yolk, now increased to 1/2 of the egg yolk.
Cereals: Giving in to hubby, no processed canned cereals, no sugar , no salt. Zoe now takes home ground oats, millets , barley and rice ( Bario) .Fruits: Banana (raw), pumpkin, sweet potato, apple,kiwi, papaya, peach, avocado, and pear, all mashed. Although doc also suggests plum, mango (raw) we are still in the process of introducing fruits to her one at a time. So we haven't reach those two yet.We usually mix a cereal and a fruit. That way she gets to experience a variety of flavours.
Meats: lean meat( Pork), breast meat ( chicken), Fishes ( Salmon and Cod fish), scallops
Vegetables: Spinach, Broccoli, Cauliflower,Asparagus, French beans, Tofu. Come next month, Zoe will reach 1 year old. And according to doc, she can start to try more variety in vegetables.
Of course, those might not taste as good as fruits, heh-heh-heh... Wonder how it will go.Anyway, as new parents, we are always experimenting and researching. We will welcome all advise and suggestions.
Friday, September 26, 2008
Potty Train
I started potty train Zoe early this month. I let her wear on training pants and keep telling her “You don’t wear diaper, when you want to pee must pee on potty okay?”
On time to time I will remind her whether she wants to pee. She will hold her pants and give me sign if she wants to. Then I’ll quickly grab the potty and let her sit on. She did have a few accidents pee on pants,maybe my maids are too busy to do house chores and didn’t remind her. I am lucky to have my maids around to give me a helping hand; otherwise, i am sure i will give up easily.( This was after a few outburst on sofa and etc). Now i have to make sure either one of my maid has to potty train her every 30 minutes. This is to let her knows the routine and gets use to it. She even accidentally poo on her pants at times that we have to clean the mess. She would be happy to see the full potty after she has done her business on it and we will definitely praise her.
But the problem now is she never pee on her cloth diaper during afternoon nap. She cried middle of her nap. When I found her cloth diaper is dry, I’m worry she hold it. So I have to hold her to pee on potty.This morning my maid told me she refused to sit on potty but poo twice on training pants. I told my maid to wear her pants and keep reminding her to pee on potty. Hope she can succeed on her potty train. We will be patient and give her more time.
Love Touching
Yesterday as usual we have intimate time with Zoe before bedtime. She is rolling, summersault and walking on the bed. While chatting with hubby on bed, suddenly this little girl uses her hands to push our head close together. Both our face was touch closely side by side. She was so happy saw this. Then later she did it again and again. Hubby move her face in too and 3 of us had a Love Touching.
Time-out
This is a special info dedicated to all my dearest friend. Pick from Parenthink magazine.
Yet, if the parents choose to ‘practice’ clam discipline which is basically action for action; minus the harsh punishment, the message of appropriate behaviour would be better programmed into the child’s brain. For instance, if a child has done something inappropriate, create a “time-out” situation. Time-out works very well with children under 5 years. Some parents may grumble that “time-out never works for me – the child is still naughty”.
Thus, there are a few simple rules to adhere to strictly: -
Time-out should never last more then two minutes at a stretch.
Never use the bathroom or store room as a time-out space.
Discipline should never create fear.
You can use a corner of a room with the child facing the corner.
Do no look at or say anything to the child while you put her/him at time-out.
If she/he tries to escape, just put your hands on his shoulder to prevent him/her from going so.
If a child cries, ignore him/her – do not look at and talk to the child until the time is up.
After the two minutes, take the child back to his original spot and leave him/her to do what he was doing previously.
She/He may test your reaction again by doing something naughty – just put her/him back in time-out again and repeat the whole process if the child keeps on doing something inappropriate.
Continue until the child gets the message that every time she/he does something naughty, time-out will be the reaction. I remember a time when I have to put a child in time-out for 8 times within a span of 20 minutes until she/he promised not to repeat his misbehaviour.
It may be exhausting for the parent but believe me time-out practiced correctly can work wonders!
By Kana Kanagasingam
Punishment which involves harsh words, shouting, screaming, hitting a child, in short, aggressive measures will create aggressive behavioral problems in the child. Is that revenge? Certainly not! The child is angry and he is hurting both physically and emotionally. If a punishment is harsh, the child will be angry but sometimes may be scared of the parents and vent his frustration at a younger sibling instead. Instead of teaching the child that whatever he did was wrong and shouldn’t be repeated, the parents are teaching him to become more aggressive or fearful.
In very young children, especially those under 5 years old, they will retaliate by screaming, breaking things, hitting back, or going into severe temper tantrums. The message of teaching something appropriate to the child is lost once the child retaliates!
Yet, if the parents choose to ‘practice’ clam discipline which is basically action for action; minus the harsh punishment, the message of appropriate behaviour would be better programmed into the child’s brain. For instance, if a child has done something inappropriate, create a “time-out” situation. Time-out works very well with children under 5 years. Some parents may grumble that “time-out never works for me – the child is still naughty”.
Thus, there are a few simple rules to adhere to strictly: -
Time-out should never last more then two minutes at a stretch.
Never use the bathroom or store room as a time-out space.
Discipline should never create fear.
You can use a corner of a room with the child facing the corner.
Do no look at or say anything to the child while you put her/him at time-out.
If she/he tries to escape, just put your hands on his shoulder to prevent him/her from going so.
If a child cries, ignore him/her – do not look at and talk to the child until the time is up.
After the two minutes, take the child back to his original spot and leave him/her to do what he was doing previously.
She/He may test your reaction again by doing something naughty – just put her/him back in time-out again and repeat the whole process if the child keeps on doing something inappropriate.
Continue until the child gets the message that every time she/he does something naughty, time-out will be the reaction. I remember a time when I have to put a child in time-out for 8 times within a span of 20 minutes until she/he promised not to repeat his misbehaviour.
It may be exhausting for the parent but believe me time-out practiced correctly can work wonders!
By Kana Kanagasingam
Monday, September 22, 2008
八月十五~中秋节~ 月儿圆圆
Met up with 婉兰 and her family+ 姑姑's family and my PIL's friend for an imprompt to gathering at our house....It was only decided on friday afternoon and the turnout was pretty good...15 of us :)
I have prepared some snacks and foods for the occassion. We have mixed cussine tonight- Fried Chicken Wings; Curry Chicken; Ceasar Salads; Thai Tong Fun Mango salad ; Sweet n Sour Fillet ; Fried Bee Hoon; Eggs Salad; and some desserts. Yum.. yum..
Pics shown that we were busy with our lanterns...it was quite messy in the beginning as zoe and venice making noises ...and since now Venice can walk, she was walking and running all over the place!! Very active gal! I hope Zoe will join her soon.
Anyways, it was a fun gathering !
Friday, September 19, 2008
Lesson on how to use Digital Camera
@ to Papa
A fruitful day for me. Today Papa got back early from office. He decided to teach me new gadget! You know my papa always on new gadgets.
Believe me i am a "new waves" baby. Very up-to-date. Sometimes i am on Mama's Mini Palm, sometimes i am on Papa's Touch Diamond; and i also got my own mobile. ( Will show you next time) Don't play play oo....
Today is my 1st lesson on "How to use Digital Camera "
( Sharing are some shots taken during the lesson)
"Zoe , zoe.."
Shh! don't disturb Mama.. ( She looks very serious)
Hands on ( In action)
( Showing Papa how good she has done)
Mama thoughts~
Don't you think nowadays babies are really advance and smart ?! I bet all of us need to be knowledgeable to keep pace with them . Be a modern Mum!
A fruitful day for me. Today Papa got back early from office. He decided to teach me new gadget! You know my papa always on new gadgets.
Believe me i am a "new waves" baby. Very up-to-date. Sometimes i am on Mama's Mini Palm, sometimes i am on Papa's Touch Diamond; and i also got my own mobile. ( Will show you next time) Don't play play oo....
Today is my 1st lesson on "How to use Digital Camera "
( Sharing are some shots taken during the lesson)
"Zoe , zoe.."
Shh! don't disturb Mama.. ( She looks very serious)
Hands on ( In action)
( Showing Papa how good she has done)
Mama thoughts~
Don't you think nowadays babies are really advance and smart ?! I bet all of us need to be knowledgeable to keep pace with them . Be a modern Mum!
Thank you Nicholas 舅舅
Today, Mama brought me to Toy's rus. First Mama was thinking to get me some swimming equipment; ended up notty me got hooked on a "Ride-on cart". I refused to get down; after several persuasion, my folk managed to get me into another toy; yet i chose another ride-on again. Hehehe e.. ( told you i am Genius)
This time i didn't get down, so Mama decided to call someone. She was on the phone for couple of minutes before hanging up and walked to the cashier . Guess what! They wrapped the ride-on Eek ekk .eii.. what's going on? I cried loudly as they have taken it away from me.
Couple of minutes later; Mama calmed me down and carried me out with Kakak holding a GIANT plastic bag at the back. I am anxious to find out what's in it? Issit the ride-on for me?
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I slept on the way home. It was happy yet tired afternoon.
* AT HOME*
"Woke up from the nap"
"See what i have for you , Zoe . .."
"(Blur Me ) ... eeeee" ( MUSIC ON) .. "Hehehhe.." I started to smile again! It was the 3in 1 ride on from the shop. Without a second i stepped on it and started rocking. Hurray!
Then Mama said " This is a present from Nicholas Jiu Jiu from Miri; and you should say thank you to him one of this day , k?" I nodded. ( Thank you to my lovely Jiu Jiu. I miss you much!)
Me and my new Vtech ride-on ( Pusher, Rocker, Ride-on)
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Scratching my head on the scarpbooking
"Dear, when are you going to start doing Zoe's album? It's been awhile since you bought the scrapbook albums for her and us! "
"Emm... soon darl" ......
* Scratching my head" written by Mama Zoe
I’m now trying to learn more about scrapbooking. Many of my friends says it’s easy. But then, i’ve not tried it out yet, nor know where to start, lol. All i know now is that i have tons of pictures in my hard disk ready for action, that’s it!!! I’ve bought two scrapbooking magazines (finally remembered). Will have to read through them when i have the time. Havent got a clue when, okay.
I’ve flipped through a few pages and i must agree scrapbooking is fun and may even stir those creative juices of mine back to live. They’ve been dormant for a looonnnggg lllooonnnggg time di, I’ve seen some featured works in those magazines and i like them very much. To me, they’re more like graphics artwork, but more personal. Gimme time. I need to pore over those mags first.
I’ve flipped through a few pages and i must agree scrapbooking is fun and may even stir those creative juices of mine back to live. They’ve been dormant for a looonnnggg lllooonnnggg time di, I’ve seen some featured works in those magazines and i like them very much. To me, they’re more like graphics artwork, but more personal. Gimme time. I need to pore over those mags first.
Luxury Baby Gifts
Sometimes i wondered when someone came to you and said " Ohh your baby has the most of it! It must be very expensive? = "Luxury?!"
Luxury is a word that evokes feelings of beauty and opulence. Imagine a luxury yacht or a luxurious cashmere sweater and you immediately think of magnificence and indulgence. But how about luxury baby gifts? In the past you might not have heard the word luxury linked to baby items, but it most definitely is this day. And why shouldn’t it be – after all, babies have the most delicate, precious skin that deserves to be treated with the utmost care.
If you’re in the market for a baby gift or something for your own child, consider something more luxurious, or high-end, this time. To many, the word luxury is synonymous with pricey, but there are many luxury baby goods that don’t come with a luxurious price tag. Instead, the problem might lie more in finding these more inexpensive items as opposed to affording them.
Some “luxury” baby items tend to be made by well-known, popular retailers that are found in high-end shopping centers or massive cities – items that only the very wealthy can afford to splurge on. But there are more independently owned companies cropping up that specialize in “luxury” items such as all-natural, organic, and handmade baby products. These can also come with high price tags, but tend to be more inexpensive than popular retailers.
Less-pricey luxury items can be found at smaller boutiques or online retailers that specialize in high-end baby items. These items might not always be labeled as “luxury” items, so you’ll have to scout them out on your own. Just look for products of the utmost quality such as handmade blankets with a high thread-count or made from organic fabric; hand-painted wooden toys with non-toxic paint; all-natural or organic bath items using calming ingredients such as lavender and chamomile; and special touches such as fabric-covered pic albums or frames, satin-lined clothing or a beautifully presented journal where parents can save their most precious memories.
Of course luxury items can come with a steep price tag, but nowadays beautifully made “luxury” items come in many price ranges. Just be on the look out for smaller shops that take the time and care to focus on making beautiful, thoughtful baby items. And look around for what fits your budget. You may be surprised to find that most boutiques carry both affordable and higher priced items all under one roof. And when you shop at an on the internet boutique or neighborhood shop you can also feel good about yourself – you’ll be helping to keep some of the most creative and talented people in business.
***** Just a Thought!***** Mama Zoe
Luxury is a word that evokes feelings of beauty and opulence. Imagine a luxury yacht or a luxurious cashmere sweater and you immediately think of magnificence and indulgence. But how about luxury baby gifts? In the past you might not have heard the word luxury linked to baby items, but it most definitely is this day. And why shouldn’t it be – after all, babies have the most delicate, precious skin that deserves to be treated with the utmost care.
If you’re in the market for a baby gift or something for your own child, consider something more luxurious, or high-end, this time. To many, the word luxury is synonymous with pricey, but there are many luxury baby goods that don’t come with a luxurious price tag. Instead, the problem might lie more in finding these more inexpensive items as opposed to affording them.
Some “luxury” baby items tend to be made by well-known, popular retailers that are found in high-end shopping centers or massive cities – items that only the very wealthy can afford to splurge on. But there are more independently owned companies cropping up that specialize in “luxury” items such as all-natural, organic, and handmade baby products. These can also come with high price tags, but tend to be more inexpensive than popular retailers.
Less-pricey luxury items can be found at smaller boutiques or online retailers that specialize in high-end baby items. These items might not always be labeled as “luxury” items, so you’ll have to scout them out on your own. Just look for products of the utmost quality such as handmade blankets with a high thread-count or made from organic fabric; hand-painted wooden toys with non-toxic paint; all-natural or organic bath items using calming ingredients such as lavender and chamomile; and special touches such as fabric-covered pic albums or frames, satin-lined clothing or a beautifully presented journal where parents can save their most precious memories.
Of course luxury items can come with a steep price tag, but nowadays beautifully made “luxury” items come in many price ranges. Just be on the look out for smaller shops that take the time and care to focus on making beautiful, thoughtful baby items. And look around for what fits your budget. You may be surprised to find that most boutiques carry both affordable and higher priced items all under one roof. And when you shop at an on the internet boutique or neighborhood shop you can also feel good about yourself – you’ll be helping to keep some of the most creative and talented people in business.
***** Just a Thought!***** Mama Zoe
Good Reasons to Join A Baby Group
Always overheard Moms complaining "No Time for herself after baby; less activities and etc.. or NO LIFE after having a baby!"
~ This is little to share to all my dearest friends.
~ This is little to share to all my dearest friends.
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At the very beginning, you might have some help at home with the baby from a partner, possibly on paternity leave, but after that, many Moms find themselves at home for long periods of time. It can be very tiring and it can feel like you never have a minute to yourself. One thing that is very important is that if the baby sleeps during the day, you should try and sleep at that time also. This will give you more energy if the baby is up at night.
Of course, it’s different for each person but quite often there are milestones where it seems to get easier, 3 months, 6 months, 1 year and so on. Although some of the tasks may get a bit easier and you may get more sleep as time goes on, the one thing that can quite often affects Moms is the amount of time they spend on their own with the baby.
A lot of people will tell you to join a Moms baby group as soon as possible, and in our thought, this is for a very good reason. You might feel shy about joining a group of people you’ve never met before, but straight away, you all have something important in common…you’ve all just had a baby! There is something very therapeutic about hearing other people’s stories about what their babies do and how they behave. Quite often you may worry about something your baby is doing or a funny rash they might have, so when you hear other Mothers saying “my baby does/has that also”, it can be very reassuring.
Another good reason for joining a baby group is you’ll make new friends, in fact in many cases these friend can become your close friends for life. Also, going to a group is a great reason to get out of the house which will help combat cabin fever! And do not worry about cost, baby groups are normally cheap and in some cases, free!! In no time at all, you will be having your new friends to your home for coffee and cakes and you will be going to theirs. All these things will help pass the time and gives the baby / toddler some interaction.
You’ll also find that as Birthdays begin coming up, you will be invited to baby parties or baby showers and this can be a good way for you (and possibly partner) to meet other like minded people. If you are going to anti-natal classes, they have the ability to quite often inform you of local groups, or they are advertised in newspapers, libraries, and don’t forget the internet! I urge all Moms to try.
Of course, it’s different for each person but quite often there are milestones where it seems to get easier, 3 months, 6 months, 1 year and so on. Although some of the tasks may get a bit easier and you may get more sleep as time goes on, the one thing that can quite often affects Moms is the amount of time they spend on their own with the baby.
A lot of people will tell you to join a Moms baby group as soon as possible, and in our thought, this is for a very good reason. You might feel shy about joining a group of people you’ve never met before, but straight away, you all have something important in common…you’ve all just had a baby! There is something very therapeutic about hearing other people’s stories about what their babies do and how they behave. Quite often you may worry about something your baby is doing or a funny rash they might have, so when you hear other Mothers saying “my baby does/has that also”, it can be very reassuring.
Another good reason for joining a baby group is you’ll make new friends, in fact in many cases these friend can become your close friends for life. Also, going to a group is a great reason to get out of the house which will help combat cabin fever! And do not worry about cost, baby groups are normally cheap and in some cases, free!! In no time at all, you will be having your new friends to your home for coffee and cakes and you will be going to theirs. All these things will help pass the time and gives the baby / toddler some interaction.
You’ll also find that as Birthdays begin coming up, you will be invited to baby parties or baby showers and this can be a good way for you (and possibly partner) to meet other like minded people. If you are going to anti-natal classes, they have the ability to quite often inform you of local groups, or they are advertised in newspapers, libraries, and don’t forget the internet! I urge all Moms to try.
2nd Kindermusik class
Today, I've attended the 2nd Kindermusik lesson for this term. I am so happy that I would be continuing the lessons for another term ( Mum said Shichita class will be postponed till year 2009) as I simply love music. The theme is still the same like last week.But i overheard that next week theme will be "Scub- a- dub- dub." I am sure it will be another interesting lesson. This week, i have explored to few types of Musical Instruments like Cymbals, Tambourine and snare drum.
Let me share some video clips on the day event.
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Breaking into new carseat
~ Emm.. looks pretty serious
Zoe enjoys her new Britax carseat, and it is not difficult to understand why. First of all, she is sitting higher now, and facing the front, so she can see more. She also likes to observe either me or hubby driving. She is babbling in the car more now, maybe she is trying to tell us what she is observing.
Busy Sunday
It was a busy Sunday ; yet fun!
Mama decided to invite Aunty Wan Lan's family over for steamboat dinner. It was so coincidence that Aunty Teresa also back from Korea. ( Mama said Aunty Teresa has MASTER in Engineering. I must learn from her ooo.. and blah blah blah ; (Wondering) Emm ,..."MASTER"? Must be something very well-done or good about .. Anyway, Congratulation Aunty Teresa! )
Anyhow i think i am Master in Laughing alound; crying aloud; babbling alound nowaday..muahahah
Some shots taken for the night!
( Mama was too busy ; therefore; only few shots been taken)
Mama prepared "self-cooked" steamboat dinner; and she made some lovely mango pudding for everyone as a dessert. Too bad; i couldn't try. (SOB SOB )
Aunty Teresa " The MASTER" playing with me.
Fathers of the YEAR ( honour)
Papa and I ( left)
Uncle Chong and Venice Jie Jie ( Right)
Mama decided to invite Aunty Wan Lan's family over for steamboat dinner. It was so coincidence that Aunty Teresa also back from Korea. ( Mama said Aunty Teresa has MASTER in Engineering. I must learn from her ooo.. and blah blah blah ; (Wondering) Emm ,..."MASTER"? Must be something very well-done or good about .. Anyway, Congratulation Aunty Teresa! )
Anyhow i think i am Master in Laughing alound; crying aloud; babbling alound nowaday..muahahah
Some shots taken for the night!
( Mama was too busy ; therefore; only few shots been taken)
Mama prepared "self-cooked" steamboat dinner; and she made some lovely mango pudding for everyone as a dessert. Too bad; i couldn't try. (SOB SOB )
Aunty Teresa " The MASTER" playing with me.
Fathers of the YEAR ( honour)
Papa and I ( left)
Uncle Chong and Venice Jie Jie ( Right)
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